Online dating multiple
If you can’t hold back on the smooching to protect your date’s feelings until you know what you want, then frankly, you’re not fit to be dating!
So have a stern word with yourself, and come back when you’ve grown up a bit.
Some folk think a cheeky snog is no reason to climb off the dating merry-go-round.
Others believe that even chatting online with more than one person is disgracefully duplicitous. If we want to enjoy the benefits of 21st century dating without getting hurt, or hurting others, perhaps it’s time to agree on a few rules. First off, most Christians would agree that once hand-holding and sweet nothings have entered the equation, there should be no hedging your bets. Then don’t be surprised if the other person assumes you’re in a relationship, and is hurt and angry to learn otherwise.
Don’t burn a bridge – I understand that a lot of people prefer not to juggle multiple options.
However, it can still come as a slap in the face to learn that someone you feel you’ve clicked with is messaging other people. If no actual relationship has begun, is it okay to meet for ‘dates’ with several people at once?
That said, I was obviously on the same multiple sites so I guess eye rolling is a little hypocritical isn’t it?
Multi-dating is the process where you set up multiple dates in quick succession.
Though when you go on dates with multiple people of your liking at the same time, you may be left bummed out.
Honesty and not overdoing anything are key ingredients to make multi-dating successful. The truth is, it demands much more craftiness and planning from your part than you might think.